Cheers! How to Master a Wedding Toast
- charismachatt
- Mar 11, 2015
- 2 min read
Posted by: Victoria Tropiano // Randi Vasquez Photography
Ahh yes, you’ve been asked to make a speech at your sibling or close friend’s wedding. You’re honored, but nervous. A million thoughts run through your mind of what you should say and how to say it. Should I be funny? Should I be serious? The most important thing to remember is…be you! Don’t force funny if you aren’t necessarily a comedic genius. If you are, you don’t need to worry whether or not you will have dry eyes in the room. I’ve spoken at a couple weddings myself, and [thankfully] my speeches were successful. Here are five guidelines I've lived by that have led me to woo the audience and, most importantly, the bride…
1.) Limit your drinks.
It’s not uncommon for people to be terrified to make a speech. It’s only natural! Although, the way people go wrong is thinking that drinking will calm them down. Sure, it’s fine to have a glass before all eyes are on you, but limit yourself to just one. You don’t want to end up slurring your words and embarrassing yourself in front of a crowd.
2.) Keep it short.
The most crucial mistake people make is thinking that the longer the speech is the better. Wrong! After just a couple of minutes, you’ve lost the attention of the whole crowd. There is no reason to go on and on and bring up a long list of inside jokes only the bride/groom will understand. Talk between 2-3 minutes. Keep it short, sentimental, and sweet.
3.) Be truthful.
I’ve made toasts at each of my sisters’ weddings. I made sure that every single word I said, I meant. Don’t feel the need to go over the top and try to one up other individuals also making a speech. Before you plan your toast, make a list of the qualities you love and admire about that person and use that as your outline. Get to the raw facts of why you love that person, what they’ve meant to you, and what you’ve learned from them.
4.) Use your own preference.
Recite your speech however you feel most comfortable. Whether it’s memorizing, writing, or even reading your toast off of your own phone. Just because someone else may memorize theirs doesn’t mean you have to. Any form is perfectly acceptable. Personally, I’m often too nervous to try and memorize mine. I’ve read mine every single time, and it’s always worked out really well!
5.) Talk about the Mr.
After talking about the bride, make sure to tie in the groom and welcome him to the family. Both of them should be recognized since you are celebrating their unity.
I know these will work for you! What are your key tricks to prepare for a wedding speech?
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